Wednesday, June 8, 2016

Here is an interesting questionnaire I found on one of my friends' Blog. If you really want to know more about me, just read on.

1. Last beverage: Banana Shake
2. Last phone call: My friend, Sonia
3. Last text message: From one of my colleagues
4. Last song you listened to: Mitwa from Kabhi Alwida Na Kehna
5. Last time you cried: 2 weeks back, I think.

6. Dated someone twice: No
7. Been cheated on? Yes
8. Kissed someone & regretted it? No
9. Lost someone special? Yes.
10. Been depressed? Yes. Few times.
11. Been drunk and threw up? No.


15. Made new friends: Yes
16. Fallen out of love: Yes
17. Laughed until you cried: Yes, Many times :)
18. Met someone who changed you: A few
19. Found out who your true friends were: Yes
20. Found out someone was talking about you: Yes
21. Kissed anyone on your friend's list: No
22. How many people on your friends list do you know in real life: Almost all.
23. How many kids do you want to have: Two. A girl and a Boy
24. Do you have any pets: No
25. Do you want to change your name: When I was a kid, But now I love it.
26. What did you do for your last birthday: Nothing much, Distributed sweets in my team.
27. What time did you wake up today: 8:15 A.M.
28. What were you doing at midnight last night: Talking to my Sister
29. Name something you CANNOT wait for: Nothing
30. Last time you saw your father: Today
31. What is one thing you wish you could change about your life: I want someone to truly love me and be there with me for rest of the Life.
32. Most visited web page: Facebook

Whats your:
33. Name: Aruna
34. Nicknames: Tensi
35. Zodiac sign: Leo
36. Male or female or transgendered: Female
37. Elementary: Don't know
38. Schools: Guru Tegh Bahadur Public School
39. Colleges: Rajdhani College, Delhi University
40. Hair color: Dark Brown
41. Long or short: Medium
42. Height: 5'1''
43. Do you have a crush on someone? No
44. Ever been in love? Yes
45. Piercings? Ear piercings
46. Tattoos? No
47. Righty or lefty: Righty

48. First surgery: Never, thank God for that
49. First piercing: When I was 14, as far as I remember.
50. First best friend: Yogita
51. First sport you loved: Badminton
52. First pet : No Pets
53. First vacation: Kullu Manali
54. First concert: no
55. First crush: One of my classmates, When I was in 3rd standard

56. Eating: Nothing
57. Drinking: Nothing
58. I'm about to: Get back to my Work
59. Listening to: Nothing
60. Waiting for: Tonight, As I have to go and see my friend.

61. Want kids? Yes
62. Want to get married? Yes
63. Careers in mind? Any peaceful job where I can earn money as well as give time to my family.

64. Lips or eyes: Eyes
65. Hugs or kisses: Hugs
66. Shorter or taller: Taller
67. Older or Younger: Older (than me that is)
68. Romantic or spontaneous: Spontaneously Romantic
69. Nice stomach or nice arms: Stomach
70. Sensitive or loud: Sensitive
71. Hook-up or relationship: Relationship
72. Trouble maker or hesitant: Nice one.

73. Kissed a stranger: No
74. Lost glasses/contacts: No, I hardly loose my belongings.
75. Sex on first date: Never!!
76. Broken someone's heart: Yup, Twice or Thrice.
77. Had your own heart broken: Yes
78. Been arrested: No
79. Turned someone down: Yes
80. Cried when someone died: Yes
81. Liked a friend that is a girl? You mean attracted to...NO!

81. Yourself: Yes
82. Miracles: No
83. God: Yes
84. Love at first sight: No
85. Heaven: No
86. Santa Claus: No
87. Kiss on the first date? No
88. Angels: No
89. Devils: Yes...few of the species

90. Is there one person you want to be with right now? No
91. Had more than one boyfriend/girlfriend at one time? Never. Won't.
92. Wanted to kill someone ever? No
93. Among your blog mates, whom would you like to kiss? No one
94. Committed a blunder and regretted later? Yes
95. Wanted to steal you friend's boyfriend / girlfriend? Never

Associate with someone you know:
96. White: My friend, Sonia
97. Black: A.K.
98. Pink: Priya
99. Red: Alps

100. Posting this as 100 Truths? YES
Today I have something to share with you all. Yes, I am very happy and excited for writing my first ever Blog post as a Guest Blogger on Ms. R's Blog. First of all I would like to congratulate Ms. R on completion of her 100th post and then thanks to the Lady, who gave me the pleasure to write a Blog Post for her. I'm soooo excited. And would like you all read my Post titled "Longing" on her Blog. Please do express your views, as they are the most important source of motivation...

Hazaaron khwaishein aisi ki har khwaish pe dam nikle, Bahut nikle mere armaan lekin phir bhi kam nikle

English translation: A thousand desires so strong, you’d die for each one, Many were quenched, but many remain undone
So, early morning, Me and my buddy had a short conversation. He was convincing me on how lucky I am being single while I was trying to prove him that he has his own benefits of being in a relationship. Really, sometimes, if we keep aside marriage, career and possessiveness, then how beautiful it feels being in love. Just the two of you know, how deeply you care about the other person. Those short messages, calls, leg pulling make us feel so special. At least someone is there who belongs to your soul. Nobody can snatch away those special moments, memories and feelings from you. Really it feels great to be in love and lo be loved by the one whom you love. And as I always say and believe: "Love is Magic"and nobody knows when this magic leaves you with memories you will cherish for lifetime. So, Keep Loving and Keep Rocking.


Tuesday, March 22, 2016

I would start this post with an Urdu quote that very much relates to my situation these days.

"Achhe waqto ki tammmanna me rahi umren rawaan; waqt aisa tha ki bas naaz uthate guzra"

Meaning: Most of the times we imagine and wait for the best times to come, but the time has its own terms and conditions, and leaves us unfulfilled and unsatisfied.

It's happening with me since past few years; I am looking forward to the future rather than living in the present. Before marriage I wanted to get married, I got married, and then I wanted everyone to love me, accept me, worked for it and succeeded to some extent. The I was waiting for my baby, worrying all the times, how I would be able to manage; many thoughts used to come to my mind, like; will I be able to adjust well with my in laws? (as I had to shift to my in laws place with the baby), she came bought happiness, I shifted to my in law's place, everything happened and taken care of well. Some days bought bad moods, post natal depression while others were happy and really satisfying.

Then I started waiting when will I go back to my own home, to my husband where I can live as per my convenience, counted days, and still counting….

But in all this I forgot that I have to live and cherish this phase also. Although I enjoy company of my daughter, my mother in law but somewhere in back of my mind, I have always been looking forward for the best times.

But now, something is changing; I have started thinking by keeping myself in their shoes.
So, what about those thoughts of going back??

I have come to the conclusion, that every time has its own share of happy moments and sad ones too (which won’t matter after a while), then why do we always wait for the perfect time to come?
I think there is no perfect time, it’s only our way of perceiving it.

PS: Zindagi Gulzar Hai :)

Loads of Love,

Monday, December 22, 2014

So life has been a roller coaster ride in this past one year... discussions, arguments, disagreements, fights, love, emotions are few words to sum up this past 11 months journey.

Well, we all have a picture for perfect married life, expectations related to our partner. But when the reality strikes, it can be a totally different picture from what we have imagined. The same happened to us :) .. the dream land became argument land and then confusions, tears, misbehavior took place of love. I think most of the married people can relate to me while the unmarried can imagine my situation. So, like every other couple we had our share of fights and disagreements. In this short span of time I have understood that even if you have get lot of ideas from other married couple about this concept married, but being married is totally a different experience which you can understand only after getting married. You can be  in your worst version at a moment while at the other moment you feel like sacrificing your everything for your better half. The same happened to us.

So, after completing 11 months, I can say that we both have accepted each other the way we are and now we know that no one is perfect. We miss each other's company whenever we are far away. Love is blooming... and now I can totally relate to one of my good friends words: the first year of every married life is very crucial and is the foundation for your married life especially if it is an arranged marriage.

Next month on 22nd January, we will be celebrating our first anniversary and hope the coming years be filled with joy, happiness and love. Here is a song (from the movie PK) dedicated to this new relationship.

Monday, August 5, 2013

Well, it's been a while, I being away from my space. Although I missed the "Moments" (the blog) a lot but something or the other kept me occupied. So, now am back and that too with a good and a BIG news. The day I had been waiting since I got the sense of the world, has finally arrived in my life too. Long wait, anticipations, bad moods have finally bought me something worth waiting for. OK enough of this foundation..

Here it goes. I am engaged !!! :) yes I am .. The day I had visualized again and again in my lifespan till now has finally become the reality. So, guys I am engaged to a wonderful person and I am Happy :) . Love is in the Air and I am loving it...

It's a beautiful feeling I must say. Now there are no hurries and no worries. No insecurities and no possessiveness. I know this person is whom I was waiting for and will be there for me always. Amen ! As they say, It's a new beginning. I hope this new road take both of us to a beautiful journey with loads of pleasant surprises ahead. We both need your best wishes and luck.

I will be sharing more stories of this new beginning with you all... :)

Love you all.