Friday, April 1, 2011

Listening to "Tinka Tinka" song from the movie "turning 30". It's a beautiful song and I cud actually relate to it. There comes a time in life when u actually, truly feel aloofed inside and out. No one approves your decisions as you've become dependent on them, living in their house. I have been realising this thing since I've quit my job. Till the time, I had my job and used to nod at every thing my parents used to tell me, I was a good daughter. My decisions were approved. But, now since I am jobless, don't have a boy friend who wants to marry me or (whome I want to marry), surving alone, Now I have become good for nothing in everyone's eyes. I can't take my decisions. I can't go for outing with my friends. People come and tell me that I am ruining my life sitting idel at home and to make it worse they advice me to get married as soon as possible to whomesoever my parents approve.


Don't I have the right to choose a guy for myself just becoz I'm jobless and getting old? Rather than spending next 30 years of mysery with a person, isn't it worth to wait for the right person to come and spend some less years (but happy moments) with the one I love. I don't know, where life will lead me but I know I will fight till I live and will marry only the one whome I find suitable for myself. Rightnow, I urgently need a job, so that I can move out of my parents home and live on my own.



4 comments :

A. K. said...

Hey good to see you back online...

Hell yeah, you should choose whom u r marrying not anyone else....

Pooja Mahimkar said...

I totally can relate to you in this. Its exactly what's happening with my life right now!!! I haven't heard the song but downloading it right now! :)

R.B. said...

please wait! I settled for the wrong man because everyone kept pushing me to marry. :( so much pain... I don't know if you are a christian, but if you are, then find someone who carries His Light. Don't settle . DOn't rush. Take your time enjoying you and helping those around you.

Rajesh Kumar said...

Fighting in worst is very rare in today's world.I think this is the best skill you have.Use it at right place.Parents are the best gift we have.They give their advice without any self-interest.Their are ppl who are not lucky like you.I would suggest give equal chance to your-self & your parents.Just trust them as you always do...(when you have job)
Job makes you confident...without job may be you loose your confidence so find a small or big job asap.You have a choice...either choose bad working environment or bad home environment...